Thursday, October 12, 2006

I miss you still......

It's been a year... I still can almost hear you talk to me... Just like the old times on the phone, talking about where to yum cha, where to go... Sometimes when I feel like asking you something, my sub-conscious mind tell me to call you... To me, you never left...

I know you'll look over me, over all of us...

We'll meet again... When my time is up... Till then....

Mei Peng

Wednesday, October 04, 2006

A note from Claudine...

Dearest David

It's nearly a year now that you have left us. I hope youre doing great wherever you may be. I have been back to Malaysia twice this year but did not have the courage to pay yourself a visit. I hope you liked the roses and card I sent you. I miss you very much David. I miss hanging out with you. I miss dialling your number on my cellphone. I miss your voice and your laughter. I miss your whinings. I miss your silliness. I miss everything we have shared together. You are a very good friend, David...and I will never ever forget you nor the footprints you planted in my heart. I wish you well my old buddy. Be happy and you know, I love you. *huGs*

With all my love,

Sunday, April 02, 2006

David's Blog

Dear family members of David Thong i given thee his login/pass as you asked me but recently my visit to his blog site. Looks like David's blog becoming a advertising site. I'm sorry Vincent you'll have to get your own blog site and your very own MSN ID. I know this is not for me to decide but i think majority of David's friend would prefer it. So lets keep this site about David Thong and friends only.

Changes i've made had lost some old infomation like friends blog links. Those who are friend of David i'll know if you want to add your Blog link to this site do so by emailing me at I've removed all the advertising stuff and ads pop up script.

As for David friends i know this is much of a suprise sometimes being a friend doesn't just include knowing him for years. David trusted me with his login/pass and i've never thought i would have to do this today. I hope you all understand what i'm doing here and hope i've not dissapointed any of you. I would like to be straight forward to everyone including those that David has told me stories about. In his previous company he worked in he didn't get a 6 months pay so i hope you're human enough to approach David's family and give to them. I would also like you all who think David as a friend and write a letter from your heart in how you remember him which i will have it posted up here. Like how Suzanne and Derrick did.

Sometimes we think back of him and sometime we think we should not have let him do things we know will harm his health. I guess we can't change a person mind by just telling him besides every beginning has an ending. I guess his fate is not as lucky as some of us. I hope his death will not go in vain which has teach us not to poison ourself with smokes and drinking. Well good luck and best of wishes to you all in crafting your future.

*David i miss the days we used to have coffee and talk of our past and i can't thank you most for being the best friend i've known for 12 years.*

Crash^Brn aka Jeffery

Saturday, December 31, 2005

Blessed New Year to all who read this blog...

Year 2005 is esp a hard year for the Thong family and i dont really know what to say but to Praise the Lord anyway!!!!

Its tough,sitting here in the computer room where my late bro used to sit for hours playing his fav online games and here iam in the same room..trying to write something on 'his' blog...all i can say its a tough year for everyone...trying to think of something good happen that year..

but what i wanted to say is bad things do happen to good people.Sometimes we just dont understand why it happen this way but in reality it does.

Its funny that all i can ever think of is all the negetive things that has happen that family income was down to more than 50% lost of income,family car got collided with another car and cost us $$$,another incident with a motorcycle's that gives us more stress..then my grandma was terminally ill and passed away follow by my bro David few months down the road!!!!- [EDITED]-pls see previous post.

You know i always misunderstand him why he worked as a 'event manager' (must be pretty good pay) but never once take some money home.. i assume that he had gone to the 'wild' side..Spending his money lavishly..ect... How wrong i have been!!.Ever since he work for them and the group that he hang out with he started to drink ..partly because of break ups with gf.. i've heard but partly because of finance too..i remember he actually got pretty drunk (drinks was paid by the company) and arrived home at about 4am one night and i've never seen him like this my heart hurts for him, i wish i know whats wrong but we never communicated..all i can do is to pray for him silently..while he's asleep..

Anyway his sickness really takes its toll this year not just on his own life but financially on the family.

I remembered begining (after the car accident somewhere around feb-april) that year 2005 for some unknown (or known) reason i begin to prayed esp hard for my family, was waking up at 4-5am and praying for like an 15min-half an hour a day. Later when i read about Dave roberson book on 'walk of Spirit walk of power' i begin to pray in tongues almost everyday.

Well since you prayed so hard ,why bad things still happened ? To be honest iam asking the same question myself. But consider this:

-my Grandma gives her live to Jesus Christ b4 she passed away to glory

- the day b4 my Bro david major surgery,God in His mercy sent a couple from indonesia ministered to him and me,my family together we prayed the classic sinners prayer.They are there at the hospital to meet us everytime my bro went in and out of hosp during midnight crisis.They never slept! They talk to my bro and later i've found out that my bro did confess to them he wanted to change,God will help him change and a second chance.Also during david's stay at the hospital ive seen lots of christian prayed for him. Surely God will do a miracle ,so many prayers!?
Well He did , He took my bro who is now in a better place than me. But can God healed him? Yes He can but i guess He knows what's best for my bro. Only God knows our futures and what will become of my bro if he lives on in this lives ? Only God knows.

Even though God did not answered my prayers the way i wanted to, i will keep on praying.
You know what is the hardest part in praying?When watching someone you loved sliping away.. and saying at the same time ' Lord i praise You, everything is in your hands,ive have done all i can according to what i know and i surrender everything into Your Hands' Still hoping somewhere that a miracle will happen and my bro raised up.God is Just. My bro will indeed raised up but not according to my own timing.

a prayer - 'Jesus Christ i commit my late bro David to you,i let him go and let You take over,death and life is in your Hands,You are righteous,fair and just in Your dealings' amen.

Year 2006 is here and only God knows what lies ahead of us.Dont let events caught you by supprise.If you're a christian but have stop praying ,pray now.Stop fooling around,gives your lives to Jesus Christ!!We can't save ourselves only Jesus can saved you cus He took your place and received the punishment that is supposely on you.For those who are not christian - Jesus Christ IS THE only Way the Truth and the Life. Jesus receives ALL those who come to Him but you need to do just one thing .. humble yourself,confess your sins and give your life to Him and follow Him.He will received you and will not reject you.

No iam not asking you to 'receive' or 'accept' or even 'believe' in Him ..even the devil 'believe' that God exits and tremble doesn't need your 'acceptance' simply because He is not having a inferiority complex.. in need of ppl accepting Him.He doesn't need your 'receiving' cus weather you receive Him or not makes no difference to Him. But God wants your very live and heart, so that he can saved you from destruction,not damaging yourself and others around you and change you.

Blessed New Year !!! I can hear fireworks outside my house ... Well i wish all of you in good health,peace,prosper in every area of your life esp in the area of knowing God.

'A prayer for New Year 2006 - 'Lord Jesus Christ i know iam not perfect and iam a sinner trying to change with my own strength but couldn't,i know that You died for me on the cross so that i can have the strength to change and turn away from sin and start doing the right things in life.This year 2006 at this very moments i give my life to YOU, i surrender my life to You,filled my heart with Your love,give me your strength so that i can face what is ahead.Give me Your strength to change.From now onwards 2006 i will follow You all the way.Thank you for dying on the cross for me and taking away my sins,thank You for You have shed Your blood on the cross for me so that i can have life more abundantly.

Heavenly Father i thank You that you loved me so much and You have sent Your Son Jesus Christ to died on the cross for me in exchange for my sin and condemnation and giving me life, In Jesus name i pray,amen.

Monday, November 14, 2005

a FULL MONTH for baby ALEX :))

yup..time sure flys..its already a month since Alex was born and i just couldn't believe it.. one month was just like yesterday when Alex was born in Assunta...we have a great celebration at my house..closed relatives,friends,,my friend your friend..cramp into the house and baby Alex just slept right thru..and yes theres food..all the food was cook by my mom..she single handed cooked and i respect her for that. How did she do may ask..why not ask your mom? lol...she actualy prepared the food 2 days.

Well in the midst of all the fairs..i thought of my late bro David whom i will meet someday in heaven...then relised that hes in a much better place them iam.Well my JESUS CHRIST is a good God,even tho i don't understand the circumstances surrounding his life,i believe when i met HIM all my question will be answered.

Monday, November 07, 2005

Miss me - But let me go...

A good friend of mine sent me this pretty little poem... I can almost hear David reciting it to us...

When I come to the end of the road
And the sun has set for me
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room.
Why cry for a soul set free ?

Miss me a little--but not too long
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love that we once shared,
Miss me--but let me go.

For this is a journey that we all must take
And each must go alone.
It's all a part of the Master's plan,
A step on the road to home.

When you are lonely and sick of heart
Go to the friends we know
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds.
Miss Me--But Let me Go!

Friday, November 04, 2005

David's memorial...

If you wanna visit him, the address is :

Jalan 229 , Section 51A ,Petaling Jaya , Name David Thong ,No 33A Block G.

On behalf of Catherine Thong

Baby Alex...

David's elder sister gave birth to a healthy baby boy, Alex on the 15th October 2005 morning...

Here are some of his photos...

On behalf of Catherine Thong

Tuesday, November 01, 2005

15th October 2005...

15th Oct 2005 -

It was around 3 am in the morning. I was sleeping on the floor in my parent's room. Suddenly, i heard my mom weeping. With much effort, i crawled to my mom side to comfort her. I knew her heart was in real pain and sorrow. My heart was in great pain too. I couldn't accept the fact that my bro has already gone. However, i force myself to sleep and try to put the fact out of my mind. With my arm embracing her shoulder, i gradually went aseep.

According to my dad, my uncle who used to sleep downstairs knocked at our door. He complained that the fluorescent light downstairs was flickering non-stop. My dad then went downstairs to check it out. what my dad remembers was that he asked my uncle what time it was and my uncle answered it was 3:30 am. After that, my dad went back to his room and hit the hay. I was asleep and not even knew someone was actually knocking at the door.

I can't remember how we started the conversation on the bed. My mom told us she saw my bro came to see her when her eyes were closed. He appeared as a shining body about a size of a baby, jumping happily from right to left and left to right. Once my mom saw him, she immediately recognized it was him, my bro. He was jumping in the air with his hand which appeared as a dark image waving continuously at his chest level as if telling my mom not to feel sad and sorrow. The movement of his hand on his chest took away my mom's sorrow, according to her. After a moment while my mom's pain had been taken away, he waved his hand at a higher position as if telling her he had to go and bye-bye. He was then lifted and dissapeared. My mom seemed definite about what had happened. she said it was not a dreeam at all. Right after he has gone, my mom knew she was lying in between my father and me and she was conscious. Soon after my mom finished her story, I jumped up and looked at the clock, it was 4 am sharp.

If that was the case, my bro might have gone to heaven and he is now in real joy and happiness! Thank you lord, thanks for accepting him into your kingdom. I miss you a lot... Ah Kit... you will always be remembered in my heart. Just wait for us there in heaven, enjoy yourself, we will be meeting each other back in heaven... take good care of yourself and Po Po, although I know everyone there in heaven are treating you with great love and tenderness. Pray for us, so that we could enter into the paradise one day and be able to meet you up again.

your sis Catherine
1st Nov 2005

Sunday, October 30, 2005

a place of memory...

just got a call frm them yesterday saying that the 'place' and the memorial inscribtion stone for my bro is ready and 'ready' to 'move' in ...hmmnnnn... when we arrive there.. i still couldnt belived that my bro already gone ....i wish it was all a bad dream but it issnt..standing there and helping to put his 'most priced belongings.. like a pair of frm friends..a watch,bangles..etc made me really think hard about life , we came into this world empty handed and thats the same way we go.
All the money we ever make and all those worldly stuff become useless when we died. The most precious thing in this world that we can ever take with us are relationship and real But its hard to loved even our 'love ones' , and sometimes we feel like 'killing' those who have hurt us or we just dont know how to love.

LOVE is HARD..sometime diffcult because we never experience it ourself.Well some people even think love means S>E>X .. well iam not going to that topic but difinately what love is NOT...

1) love is NOT is much more than that.I guess love and relationship is much like DNA.. if you have a damage DNA from your father/mother..your next gener will be not much better than you ,most highly worst off. If my DNA is healthy..well my next gener is healtheir too.

2) love is NOT GOD. Well many ppl mistakenly thinks that love is in its self is not God.. Love without God = abuse,selfish,impatient,(some ppl even stalk you around for months because they are in 'love'..the ladies know what iam talking about) because we are inperfect.Thats why we need God who is perfect to help us.*the RIGHT GOD,TRUE AND LIVING GOD.

The only way to give love is first of all to receive love. We cant give what we dont have right ? (iam still learning this).

The Perfect love Perfect DNA comes from above which is Jesus Christ who died on the cross and carry/bear for my /your sin and sickness/curces ,BLEEDING ,beaten,because WE inperfect humans who find it hard to love so that we can start loving others with the love of Christ. All we need to do is to give our life /heart to the Perfect Lover Jesus Christ and acknowledge our sin and shortcomings and failures and to received His love for me which is uncondition,saying Yes Jesus i give you my life, forgive me for my sin,shortcomings and failures,come into my heart and make me a new person,from now on i want to follow you,be my Lord and Master of my life. Jesus said this 'For God so loved the world(u and me) that He gave His One and Only Son so that we can have eternal Life,a life full of joy and peace (even when we go thru troubles in this life),we know that God IS LOVE.

While we still have the time..let us make full use of it to get to know Jesus Christ to receive His love and give to people around us esp our loved,dad,silblings,friends..and thats the best gift that we can give when we passed from this life to the next.

For those who wants to visit my late Bro memorial is the address :

Jalan 229 , Section 51A ,Petaling Jaya , Name David Thong ,No 33A Block G.

- coming from SS2 ,mongo jerry on your left ..keep going straight.. , Sea Park school on your right, go straight pass traffic lights ,
arrived at 2nd traffic(SS1/Kg Tunku primary school), go straight 12 o'clock, chinese cemetary on your left,memorial on your right,turn right.

Post by Vincent Thong

Tuesday, October 18, 2005

A note from Suzanne & Derrick...

Dear David,

Last time we saw you was at our wedding. That was almost 2 years ago. You were always such a dear friend and we shall not forget your smile, your laugh and your love for those around you. In fact, it was because of you that Derrick and I met each other again 5 years ago.

When we heard about your passing, we prayed as hard as we could that you had accepted Christ Jesus into your life. As we read the past few blogs, it came as a confirmation. We rejoice knowing that the Lord has prepared the way for you. Praise the Lord !Rest in peace and we shall soon meet you again.

A voice from heaven said,"God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away."


21:4~"He who hears My word and believes in Him who sent Me has everlasting life, and shall not come into judgment, but has passed from death into life"

~John 5:24~

Love always,

Suzanne aKa sWeeTcaKe & Derrick aKa jungleb0y

Friday, October 14, 2005

David's Funeral

This morning, the weather was extremely gloomy. Tufts of gray clouds that hung in the air obscured the skyline. I was in the car, on my way to work, when it started to drizzle. I swear there would never be another morning as bleak and as grave as this, and the weather is only a fraction of the real cause.

It was David’s funeral today.

I arrived at the church at about 10 am. It’s one of the few times which I’ve actually been on 0-time. I guess it’s only respectful, as that was probably my last ‘appointment’ with him. In the past, he always had to wait for me, but that never deterred him from picking me up or taking me out whenever I didn’t feel like driving. Sometimes, he’d remind me gently to be on time, but unless we’re really really late for something, he wouldn’t say a word when I burst into the car apologising for having him wait for me.

His sister spoke at the funeral today. My recollection of what she said is a bit fuzzy, as I was standing outside the church, letting my sobs out in Mei Peng’s arm, who was also in tears herself. What I did hear clearly, was that David was someone who cherished his friends a lot, and that was why, they decided to put the balloons which his friends have given him, into the coffin with him. That made us sob even harder, because we knew that David was precisely that sort of person. He treated his friends very well, and he loved us all.

And we in turn, love him, which is why it’s so hard to accept the fact that he’s gone now. I’m still unable to get over the fact that he’s gone, and that I’ve seen him in flesh, for the last time today, when I walked by the coffin to pay my last respect.

After the funeral service, when his coffin was about to be lifted into the waiting van, I took note of my surroundings, and noticed that the sun was shining brightly again. It was as if he was trying to tell us, that the time of mourning is over, and we should go on with our lives in the manner of the sun, that rises each day, no matter what strikes the earth.

Anyway, he always complained that my posts are too long and contain too many bombastic words, and since this will be posted on his blog as well, I will end it here.

I know however, if I’d asked David if I could just post a poem, he’d say,

“Haaai, OK lah…”

Life - Charlotte Bronte

LIFE, believe, is not a dream
So dark as sages say;
Oft a little morning rain
Foretells a pleasant day.
Sometimes there are clouds of gloom,
But these are transient all;
If the shower will make the roses bloom,
O why lament its fall ?

Rapidly, merrily,
Life’s sunny hours flit by,
Gratefully, cheerily,
Enjoy them as they fly !

What though Death at times steps in
And calls our Best away ?
What though sorrow seems to win,
O’er hope, a heavy sway ?
Yet hope again elastic springs,
Unconquered, though she fell;
Still buoyant are her golden wings,
Still strong to bear us well.
Manfully, fearlessly,
The day of trial bear,
For gloriously, victoriously,
Can courage quell despair !

on behalf of

Abby Lu


My dear friend,

I have been following your blog, before your illness and have prayed for you, that God would open your eyes to the truth.

Reading the words of Vincent Thong that you accepted the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord & personal Saviour gives me the joy and comfort that you are truly at peace. When I read about your passing away, my heart was troubled, because my fear was that you were not saved. Now that I know that your name is written in the Book of Life, I rejoice with the saints above.

God bless your family and friends and I pray for God's goodness and peace to be over them. I also pray that through this, many would come to the saving knowledge of Jesus Christ.

I leave with these words:

Philippians 1:21 - For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain.

2 Timothy 4:7 - I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.

Till we meet again,
Your friend.

Wednesday, October 12, 2005

With Loving Memory to our late David Thong

Dear God!
Why did God take you away from me?
Isn't fair!
Why me and why now?
I hope to see you again
I know your in my heart but, your not here on this earth anymore
I have to be strong now
For everyone but, sometimes I can't do it
It is to much to handle now at this time
In the end I can't do it
I keep everything inside but everything always falls apart
things are not the same without you
It hurts to think, breath, and sleep
Oh my God its just to hard
Why couldn't they have caught this before hand
i hate those doctors so much
God why him?
He had a family that loved him and he was loved by his friends.
I'm sitting here missing you
Miss your smile and your laugh
I miss everything about you
I hate it that your gone...You take care my friend!
always always deep down..I will remember you!
Thanks for having me being in your space!
LoveJonie, Ah tee aka Waffy

I realise everyone have a lot of things to say about David and since I'm the guest blogger of this his blog, I would want to help publish it here. Things that you wanna say about him. Just send it to me at my email - .

Tuesday, October 11, 2005


Dear Angel,

For all the times that we've tried,
We'll never be like his soul, so kind,
I ask of you, please watch after him
For I can't go where the lights are dimmed.

David,they can't take memories away...You're safe there. Will miss you...

nottigal on behalf of
Allan 10.11.05 - 11:53 am

May you rest in peace...

Dear David,

You will forever be remembered close to our hearts... You are a true fighter... I hope that you'll be at a better place now...

Love you always...

Sunday, September 18, 2005

MSN Space??

Just discovered the MSN spaces from my messenger where you click on your friends list on their small little icon and it will show you their MSN spaces link. It has been around for months already but I didnt realised it's free. I'm not going to blog there since I already have this blogspot.

So, another picture posting site for me hehehe

And here... some updated pics showing my condition right now.

Havent cut hair for more than 2 months...

Silly hair cut from Indian Barber shop

Railways behind those cotton dressing... wanna see?

Sunday, September 11, 2005

Fever & My New CPU

Havent had time to update much cause I was admitted to hospital again last Monday. I was having high fever for few days before admitting. Doctor from Hospis Organisation came to my house for a minor check up and she told my mom I might have infections in my stomach. My parents straight away sent me to Sunway Medical Center then I had Ultrasound Scan and Xray again. I was told I had blood and fluids in my stomach that causes the fever and I have to stay for dripping and injections. Again i have my wrist poked... stayed for 3 night. I also had my stiches removed took 1 hour to remove them all abot 50 was just painful no need to explain. I'm feeling better now but my wounds are sore after removal of stiches. It's gonna take another week to heal as I still can see some dried fluids at the cotton dressing.

Just bought a new CPU withouth monitor, a P4 3.0ghz with 1 gig RAM and 128 GeForce VGA card etc. Finally I can play all the latest game available out there. I got it below market price cause Jeffrey was buying in a bulk for his and his partners new MMORPG Cafe at Taman Desa. My next aim is a 17" LCD screen, since my parents have been complaining about radiation. LCD screens would definately reduce lots and lots of radiation and no flickers at all. But abit slack though one of the fans in my casing is causing serious noise. I have extra fans in my casing to reduce heat... it's actually custom made for cyber cafe use cause the PC is ON almost 24 hours everyday. Telekom people just came this morning to fix my ?ADSL modem too. I have to say they are quite efficient these days furthermore today is Sunday and they are working overtime. I just can't wait to get my original Battlefield 2 and WOW(World of Warcraft)...hopefully Jeffrey has got them all for me today. I'm still playing his WOW account... but nothing beats your own account and characters.

Anyone knows anywhere I can get cheap and nice 17" LCD screens? :P

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